the topic for today is relationship....
let's talk about the relationship between a girl and a guy.....
in past few months, i've been seeing all of this posts about relationship goal...example, after reading or watching the fault in our stars, girls especially started to post to have relationship goal like hazel grace and gus.... me like duh.....
ok, here's some reality, all of those amazing lovers stories that you read, watched or even heard are all FICTIONAL..those lovey-dovey stories are made that way, its MADE....naturally, or in reality, the unlikeliness for you to get that perfect guy or girl is at its highest rate...
i mean, c'mon.....do you expect your girl or boy to still be smiling and say its okay when you at your worst temper? naaahhhhh....they'll freak out with you...
im not an expert in relationship....don't have any kind of special experience/s... but from what i know, it takes two to tango, it takes two hands to make sound when you clap...both parties have to work to achieve a healthy relationship....
those relationship pictures that you are envy on, the one that you find on snapchat, instagram, twitter, facebook or any other social media are portrayed to you that way... do you think they get through their day by cuddling? no, they also have stuff to do, they also fight, they also freak out at each other..
what i wanna say is... don't expect that your relationship always on smooth sailing, almost perfect, just the way you want....its not...it involve two souls, two mind in a relationship....the are always differences which make it interesting...
a happy relationship needs efforts, passions, understanding, toleration and ability to be willing to sacrifice stuffs...small stuffs like your time with your video games, your time getting ready...
its like a melting pot where two different color of candles melted to make one beautiful candle....
but yeah, once in a while i also like to indulge in the world of fairy tale love stories....just remember that you are not in the movies or books, you are in the life called reality.
| this is sweet, but do you know the behind story of this? how much effort it takes? |
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| this is like once a year kinda sweet talk..lol |
| only at that moment, do you really think they did this every time they meet? every single day? gosh........... |
